How to Talk a Girl Into a Threesome

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It is what every guy desires. To hear a girl say, “I want to have a threesome with another girl.” Some guys may cringe if she says she wants to be doubled teamed by two guys but there are less than a handful of heterosexual guys that would turn down the opportunity to have a threesome with two gorgeous women. Figuring out how to talk a girl into a threesome could be more difficult than memorizing pi to 200 decimal places. Heck, I bet if we asked Thomas Edison what would be harder, inventing the light bulb or talking a beautiful women into a threesome he would choose the later. So, how do you do it?

The Importance of Being Comfortable

What many guys, especially young and inexperienced guys, do not understand is that making your girl or woman comfortable is one of the most important aspects of sex. If your goal is to simply find that special girl that just wants to hop in bed with another woman you are in for a rude awakening. Girls are not going to simply say, “John, I want to eat another girl out while you are giving it to me doggie style!” While this would be a dream come true, it is not going to happen with any sane female in the world. If it has happened for you please leave a comment below as I would love to hear the story.

In reality, talking a girl into a threesome is going to take time and energy. There are many girls that want to explore the sexual desires of being with a guy and a girl at the same time but they are not going to just come out and say it to anyone; especially if they are not truly comfortable with said individual. For a girl to become comfortable with you it is important to remember to be completely honest. If you are trying to hide something from a female I can promise you that they will figure it out quickly and that threesome will never happen. Even if being completely honest might not be the most attractive thing to her it is better to simply tell her the truth.

In another post I will explain the important of being completely honest even if there are other girls in your life. This is counterintuitive of what most guys would think but it works wonders. It is not because they are turned on that you are hanging out with other girls. It has everything to do with the fact that you are comfortable with your way of life and you don’t mind her knowing about it. That said, I would never suggest sleeping around with five or six girls and bragging about it to your girlfriend of fiance. In fact, if you want to life the lifestyle of sleeping around, do not get into a committed and exclusive relationship. This ultimate point is that you always need to be completely honest with any female if you hope to have truly amazing sex, and possibly a threesome, with them.

When communicating with your sexual partner there is nothing wrong with asking them if they have any fantasies as it relates to a threesome. When asking this question it never hurts to comfort her if she is not interested in that type of activity. Do not get mad or show anger as an emotion if her response is, “Ew, that is gross!” There are many instances when you will have a sexual partner that has absolutely zero desire to be with the same sex. This does not mean she is not a great sexual partner or a wonderful friend. It just means it is going to take a lot more time for her to accept that a threesome is possible in her life.

The one thing I would strongly suggest is to never push a girl into a threesome or any type of sexual adventure. It is best to discuss what it is that is appealing or unappealing about that particular endeavor. If you can clearly see disgust or lack of interest on her face when you talk about a threesome then it might very well be the case that a threesome is not in the cards for you. There is no magic trick to simply convince a girl uninterested in a threesome to actually have the desire to truly want it. Even if she explains that a threesome is not something she will do, you have just opened yourself up to more sexual adventures by being honest with her. If you tried to hide your true sexual desires you are slamming the door shut on unique positions and places in which sex will be possible.

In any situation or circumstance always remember to keep your girl comfortable. As soon as she gets uncomfortable it is going to cause the depth of communication to lessen. A shallow conversation makes it hard for a girl to want to do fun and exciting things with any guy. Not just in the bed, but life in general.